=90/10 Principle=

2011.06.24  ^0^

90/10 Principle

what i have learned in counseling class today

well

it's not the first day i know about it

'coz i apply it all the time in my life

^^

so

what's this 90/10 principle all about?

10% of life is made up of what happens to you

90% of life is decided by how you react

in other words

we really have no control over 10% of what happen to us

BUT

we determine the other 90%

sometimes life is just out of our control

we can't stop the car from breaking down

we can't stop the coke from splitting on our body

BUT again

we can react on them differently

well

u may blame ur dad for not service the car on time

u may blame the glass is too slippery to hold

u are frustrated

u are disappointed

u think it's black friday

but think it over again

how would u feel if u react in the other ways?

the car is giving u a signal that it's time to go for service before an accident happen

u will feel thankful rather than frustrated

it's not healthy to drink coke so often

try to change it to another healthier drinks

u will enjoy drinking it

see

it depends on how u react and how u response to the issue

same incident

different reaction

different consequence

it's all about perspectives again

=)